Budapest Proposal Planning Tips and Sample Scenarios
Planning a surprise proposal in Budapest but worried about making it too obvious?
You’re not alone!
Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Welcome to my tried-and-true proposal and engagement shoot plans! I’ll help you create a seamless experience that keeps the surprise intact while making sure everything runs smoothly.
Question: “How can I bring her to Fisherman’s Bastion without arousing suspicion?!”
Game Plan 1 - Planned Photoshoot
Suspicious Level: 7/10
Difficulty Level: 1/10
Romance: 7/10
Chance for good photos: 9/10
This plan is the easiest to organize and usually gives the most successful result for good photos.
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Tell Your Partner: Explain that you hired a photographer because the city is so beautiful, and you would love to have some lovely photos from it.
Preparation: Ensure you both dress nicely for the photoshoot, suggesting it will be fun and special.
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Arrive at the Agreed Location: Meet me at the spot we have prearranged for the photoshoot.
Start the Photoshoot: Begin with a regular photoshoot, capturing various poses and angles.
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Adjust Positions and Angles: I will change your positions and angles to look good for a proposal photo.
Give the Hint: At the right moment, I will give you a hint by saying, “I like how it is looking right now,” or giving you a wink.
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Propose: Use the hint to know it's the perfect moment to go down on one knee and give the ring.
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Questions to Consider:
Does your partner like getting photos taken?
Is your partner active on social media?
Will your partner find it normal to hear an offer from you?
ADVANTAGE: This option ensures that both of you will come prepared (more dressed up, with make-up, hair done, etc.), and I will have full control of the environment and poses, so you will both like the photos better in the end.
CHALLENGE: Your partner might guess immediately that a proposal may be coming. You should keep cool and pretend nothing big is happening. Or you can just let them get the hints; maybe it will make the whole event more exciting!
Option 2 - Random Photographer
Suspicious Level: 1/10
Difficulty Level: 6/10
Romance: 6/10
Chance for good photos: 6/10
This plan can be a good one depending on some conditions
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Tell Your Partner: Bring your partner to the agreed spot and attempt to take selfies. Express dissatisfaction with the selfie results.
Preparation: Look for someone with a camera (me) to help with taking the photo. -
Ask for Help: When you see me taking photos, ask if I can take a picture with your phone.
Taking your photos: I will take the photo and suggest that the lighting isn't good for phone photos, offering to use my camera instead, and send you the photos for free.
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Adjust Positions and Angles: I will change your positions and angles to look good for a proposal photo.
Give the Hint: At the right moment, I will give you a hint by saying, “I like how it is looking right now,” or giving you a wink.
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Propose: Use the hint to know it's the perfect moment to go down on one knee and give the ring.
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Answer some questions yourself; the answer should be mostly "yes":
Are you good enough to act in this scenario?
Is he/she going to be okay with giving the phone to a stranger?
Will you be able to bring your partner with a nice outfit and make-up/hair?
ADVANTAGE: This option ensures that he/she will not be suspicious about the proposal, making it an ultimate surprise.
RISK: He/she may come unprepared (not dressed up, no make-up, hair not done) and may not feel comfortable. I suggest dressing up yourself, so he/she will want to do the same.
Option 3 - Hire me as a “guide”
Suspicious Level: 2/10
Difficulty Level: 3/10
Romance: 7/10
Chance for good photos: 9/10
This plan is the most popular recently and it has been working all smoothly.
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Tell Your Partner: Explain that you hired a guide for a Budapest sunrise/sunset tour.
Preparation: I will meet you as the guide with a small shoulder bag containing my camera.
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Browse for Photo Spots: I will quickly browse for the best photo spots and direct you there.
Offer to Take a Photo: Once we get to a spot, I will offer to take a photo of you for my guide portfolio.
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Adjust Positions and Angles: I will change your positions and angles to look good for a proposal photo.
Give the Hint: At the right moment, I will give you a hint by saying, “I like how it is looking right now,” or giving you a wink.
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Propose: Use the hint to know it's the perfect moment to go down on one knee and give the ring.
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Answer some questions yourself; the answer should be mostly "yes":
Are you good enough to act in this scenario?
Will you be able to bring your partner with a nice outfit and make-up/hair?
Is she going to be cooperative when I request to take a photo for my client portfolio?
ADVANTAGE: This option ensures that he/she will not be suspicious about the proposal at all, making it an ultimate surprise.
RISK: He/she may come unprepared (not dressed up, no make-up, hair not done) and may not feel comfortable. I suggest dressing up yourself, so he/she will want to do the same.
Option 4 - The Stressed Photographer
(my favourite!)
Suspicious Level: 1/10
Difficulty Level: 5/10
Romance: 9/10
Chance for good photos: 9/10
This plan can works like a miracle!
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Tell your partner: Tell themyou want to go to a specific spot because morning selfies can be great there.
Dress up: Ensure you both dress nicely for the photos, suggesting it will be fun to have a few nice selfies together.
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I will take you to the spot for the photo and direct you to various positions and angles so you look good for a proposal photo.
At the right moment, I will give you a hint by saying, “I like how it is looking right now,” or giving you a wink/nod.
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Adjust Positions and Angles: I will change your positions and angles to look good for a proposal photo.
Give the Hint: At the right moment, I will give you a hint by saying, “I like how it is looking right now,” or giving you a wink.
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Propose: Use the hint to know it's the perfect moment to go down on one knee and give the ring.
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Are you good enough to act in this scenario?
Is he/she going to be okay with allowing a stranger to take your photos?
Will you be able to bring your partner with a nice outfit and make-up/hair?
ADVANTAGE: This option ensures that he/she will not be suspicious about the proposal, making it an ultimate surprise.
RISK: He/she may come unprepared (not dressed up, no make-up, hair not done) and may not feel comfortable. I suggest dressing up yourself, so he/she will want to do the same.